A MUM reckons men have forgotten how to flirt – and says women are fed up with the ‘desperate’ teenager approach.
Teacher turned model Courtney Tillia, 37, is constantly chatted up and believes guys need to up their game if they want to successfully get a girl’s number.
Happily married with four kids, the brunette, from Arizona, believes fellas need to realise that flirting is an art form and requires real skill to be a success.
She says: “I definitely think people need to learn how to approach somebody or ask them out in today’s world.
“We get such wild messages online and such unappealing ways of being approached in person.
“There’s a standard of safety and rapport that has to be established first.
“It’s a skill to be able to create a connection first, to play the long game a bit, and then to proceed with escalating the situation.
“The horny teenager approach isn’t cute. We like maturity.”
She adds: “For those wanting to approach women or ask them out, they need to understand that coming in too hot and aggressive is usually a turn off.
“Starting with a friendly and kind interaction allows us to filter out those that aren’t really invested in getting to know us.
“Also, putting us on a pedestal isn’t the vibe. It creates a weird dynamic when you try to worship us and lead with grand gestures.
“We’re looking for potential partners, not a congregation. Slow down. Take it easy.
“Flirting is an art. We like playful, fun banter that comes with a genuine interest in connecting with us and wanting to know who we are.
“Being able to hold your own in a conversation is a must.
“We’re feeling you out to see if we vibe and if you’re somebody who we might want to get to know better.
“We’re testing you and most just down have the patience or awareness to get past the initial stage.”